Finding a spouse. This can truly be the most challenging task for both Muslims and Non-Muslims alike. You can follow the philosophy, “I’m not going to go out and look for someone to get married to, it will happen whenever it does”, or you can actually look and search for a life partner. We are not in the position to say which philosophy is correct or better. As a matter of fact, neither philosophy is wrong, it just depends on your outlook on life and what is important to you. However, if your outlook on life gives importance to having a family of your own, you may be better off to follow the latter philosophy and seek out a spouse instead of hoping your Mister or Misses will somehow magically appear.

Is there a stigma in finding a spouse online? We don’t think so, but some people may feel that there is. Truthfully, there is nothing wrong with using one of the greatest forms of technological advancement of our time to find a spouse- the World Wide Web. Typically, people spend about 1/3 of a day working, 1/3 of the day sleeping, and the rest of the time is split between relaxing and other activities such as house work, school, volunteerism, extra-curricular activities and etc. This leaves very little time and energy to actually seek out a potential spouse. And if you do have time, where do you look? What do you say? How do you know if the person is even looking for marriage? Do you really want to meet or even converse with a stranger without having information on them? Using a Muslim Matrimonial site like misterNmisses.com takes all the awkwardness out of seeking a spouse and just makes the whole process very simple. To top it off, it does not take too much time from your day. So instead of waiting 3 months for someone who says they will set you up with a potential suitor and only to be disappointed, sign up to misterNmisses.com and take some control!